Monday's Musings: Who are You Trusting to Support You in Life?

by Mary Denman    @MaryDenman

In downtown Greenville, SC, there's a great park built around a beautiful waterfall on the Reedy River. 

But this wasn't always the case. 

You see, back in the 50's or so, an engineer decided to put a road right through the falls. One of the columns was in the waterfall. It wasn't a pretty bridge at all. It was just a sturdy road. The park that was beneath it was neglected and actually a bit dangerous to go to since it was so isolated. 

Finally, city planners decided to revitalize the downtown area. The road bridge was torn down and a contest began for a new pedestrian bridge to be built. They wanted to showcase the falls to visitors and not have the walking bridge detract from the Reedy River and park. 

They chose the winning design well.  

It's a suspension bridge. There are no support columns directly beneath it. 

Night time shot of the waterfall.
The only two poles visible fall away from the footpath. There are however, ropes of steel that tie back to the poles. Because the poles and ties are "behind" the pedestrians, the view to the waterfall is unadulterated.  

It's a beautiful structure to photograph and to walk on while observing the falls. 

Whether you're on the bridge or beneath it, you can appreciate it's beauty and strength. 

Part of what makes the structure so stunning is that it almost looks like it's just floating. That it's very light. But that's not the case when you see what's supporting the structure. Huge cables. Huge bolts and nuts. 

The true strength of the bridge lies beneath it.
As I marveled at the engineering that went into the bridge, I thought about people I've known who've endured deep trauma, but didn't crumble. People who came out the other side so strong. Just like the bridge. Beautiful yet strong. 

One dear friend lost her daughter before we met. Yes, she still mourns for and misses her daughter. But my friend Dee Dee is one of the most beautiful and strong women I know. She didn't crumble under the weight of watching her daughter suffer from cancer and pass away. Life can't be easy with that kind of ache in your heart. 

Yet Dee Dee exudes love, encouragement and laughter. 

How you may ask?

It's because of who supported her. Who walked with her in the valley. 

Yes, her husband was there with her. But ultimately, God walked every step of the way with her and her husband. 

God can give you the strength to go on when you bury your child, your parents, you lose your job. He can support you in such a way that you can come out beautiful through the adversity. 

Anchored in the bedrock.
I've seen it in my own life and in the lives of others. 

Just like the old, ugly bridge was demolished so the gorgeous suspension bridge could rise over the waterfall and river. Anchored in the bedrock. Floating above the torrents. 

I want to be like that bridge. I want others to see where my anchor is. In the bedrock. 

I want people to see how God supported me in the trials. To be an encouragement to others. 

To know that if God can support a mess like me, he can support anyone. 

Where do your anchors lie? Who's supporting you in life?

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  2. Great point, Mary. I love the Liberty Bridge. Remember watching them put it up so long ago. How'd you get those 3rd and 4th shots? Must've been challenging!

    1. I didn't know that's the name of the bridge! Thanks for letting me know. There's a path that leads under the bridge, It's a pleasant walk. :)

  3. What a beautiful scene of the night at the waterfall.

    1. Thanks. It is beautiful there. They did a great job with the renovation and presentation.

  4. Beautiful bridge and waterfall!! I've visited a few other suspension bridges throughout the country and they are amazingly constructed! The Lord is our only sure Anchor!! I admire your friend, Dee Dee, as well. I've often thought that I don't know how I would make it through something like losing a child, but I know only God is able!!!

    1. Isn't Dee Dee just precious? She is so gracious and she's the first to tell anyone that God has gotten her through.

  5. I'm so glad I read this, Mary. It's beautiful.

    1. I'm glad Cynthia! I know you've had a hard year and I pray this year is better!

  6. Thank you for this beautiful blog, Mary. Your photographs are lovely! I am so thankful that the Lord places friends in our lives to support us during the hurtful honored you are my friend.

  7. Beautiful pictures Mary :)

    Thanks for sharing at Creative Mondays..

  8. Beautiful thoughts, beautiful shots.
    Thank you for sharing both at

  9. Thank you for sharing this beautiful, inspiring post with us at Inspire Me Monday at Create With Joy Mary - I hope you are feeling better!

    Have a blessed week! :-)